Inherited Dance Steps: Understanding Your Original Choreography

$100.00

There is good music to dance to in your marriage. We'll explore what that healthy marriage dance looks like and how it was meant to be.

What role does your family of origin play in how you dance with your husband? Let's take a deeper look at the music by which you learned to dance and figure out the faulty steps. We'll replace those with groovy moves that will boost you to thrive even if he doesn't choose to tango. Finally, we'll take a look at how the brain amps up the reactive notes and how to calm it back down.

​Come practice some of those calming moves!

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When the Dance Gets Tense: Interrupting the Reactive Rhythm

$100.00

Every marriage faces tense music in the relationship that might just lead to both spouses stepping off the ballroom floor. We'll take a look at how that emotionally reactive cycle works, help you identify your own role in the cycle, and help you know how to get back in the jive.

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Holding the Music Alone: Processing Grief When Engagement is Absent

$100.00

When your marriage is disconnected, there is much to grieve. However, it's not just grief. There is ambiguous loss that keeps you hurting over time. We'll discuss what you've lost, how it has affected you and your family, and learn ways to tackle this special kind of grief. The individual, slow dance that results is stunningly beautiful.

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Learning Your Own Choreography: Discovering the Dancer Within

$100.00

There are no guarantees when it comes to relationship dances. Our goal is not to require him to take dance lessons or force him onto the ballroom floor. The goal is to learn all you can about yourself. What makes you who you are? What music do you love? Are you introverted or extroverted? What's your attachment style? Language of apology? ​Are you a groover or a waltzer?

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Inherited Dance Steps: Understanding Your Own Choreography--Feb 21, 2026

There is good music to dance to in your marriage. We'll explore what that healthy marriage dance looks like and how it was meant to be.
What role does your family of origin play in how you dance with your husband? Let's take a deeper look at the music by which you learned to dance and figure out the faulty steps. We'll replace those with groovy moves that will boost you to thrive even if he doesn't choose to tango. Finally, we'll take a look at how the brain amps up the reactive notes and how to calm it back down.
​Come practice some of those calming moves!

When the Dance Gets Tense: Interrupting the Reactive Rhythm--Mar 7, 2026​

Every marriage faces tense music in the relationship that might just lead to both spouses stepping off the ballroom floor. We'll take a look at how that emotionally reactive cycle works, help you identify your own role in the cycle, and help you know how to get back in the jive.

Holding the Music Alone: Processing Grief When Engagement is Absent--Mar 21, 2026

When your marriage is disconnected, there is much to grieve. However, it's not just grief. There is ambiguous loss that keeps you hurting over time. We'll discuss what you've lost, how it has affected you and your family, and learn ways to tackle this special kind of grief. The individual, slow dance that results is stunningly beautiful.

​Learning Your Own Choreography: Discovering the Dancer Within--Apr 4, 2026

There are no guarantees when it comes to relationship dances. Our goal is not to require him to take dance lessons or force him onto the ballroom floor. The goal is to learn all you can about yourself. What makes you who you are? What music do you love? Are you introverted or extroverted? What's your attachment style? Language of apology? ​Are you a groover or a waltzer?

Save $50 by purchasing all 4 Workshops

One Can Still Dance Workshops

$350.00

Are you married to an emotionally absent man and become paralyzed or disconnected? This series of workshops is designed just for you. Come learn how to thrive in your marriage even if he decides to remain distant. We'll learn how to rise from the dead, summon life from the last struggling breaths of your true self, and embrace all you can be.

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Location:
Third Space Coffee
5670 N. Academy Blvd
Colorado Springs, CO

Dates:
February 21, 2026
March 7, 2026
March 21, 2026
April 4, 2026

Time: 9am--2pm
​Lunch on your own-coffee shop has lunch menu!

Wendy C. Brown, MA, MS, LMFT

Wendy C. Brown is a seeker and lover of nature who enjoys finding the wild side of life. As a single wife herself, she has a heart for the tiniest flames of passion to burst into reality. As a professional marriage and family therapist, writer, and speaker she brings her whole heart ​to understand, connect, guide, entertain, ​and inspire.
Wendy is a graduate of Dallas Theological Seminary and Lee University. She has traveled the world in her lifetime and married a carpenter from New Zealand.
​She is 31 years married with three beautiful adult children, and enjoys hiking, nature, and photography.

Megelyn Shumway, MSMFT, MFTC

Megelyn has a Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Capella University and is currently in private practice.  She specializes in working with couples and adult women. She has been successful in assisting clients with reactivity, parenting, rediscovering identity, healing from trauma, and grieving.  She has been trained in Hope Restored and EMDR.   
She and her husband have been married for 35 years and have 5 grown children.  In addition to hanging out with her family, she likes knitting, crocheting, reading, doing puzzles, and watching British whodunits.   She and her husband enjoy traveling. 

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